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So many people tell me, “I’m not convinced I can actually help anyone.” And I get it — it’s hard to believe in something you haven’t done yet. You can take every personality test, talk to ten mentors, or even hear an astrologer tell you you’re “meant for this.” But none of that will convince you until you see someone genuinely benefit from your work. ✨ That’s the paradox. You don’t believe you can do it — so you don’t start. And because you don’t start — you never get the proof that you can. But what if you simply began? Offer it for free. For a token. For a meal. For feedback. Do it ten times. Then ten more. Because the truth is, confidence doesn’t come before experience — it’s built through it. No one gets it right on the first try. But somewhere between your first attempt and your twentieth, you’ll realise you already became the person you doubted you could be. 🎥 Watch the full video now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9StbL-RuKu0 ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: http://bit.ly/maysimyoutubesubs ► Follow on Instagram: @maysim.sg ► TikTok: @selfstrology #ConfidenceJourney #PurposeDrivenCareer #PersonalGrowth #CareerWithMeaning #AuthenticLiving #PsychologicalAstrology #MaySim #Selfstrology #EmotionalWellbeing #CourageToBegin #OvercomingFear
When people tell me they’re afraid to pursue a purposeful career, they often say the issue is money. But when we dig deeper… I’ve found that most of the time, it’s actually a psychological issue. Because here’s the truth: many self-employed people I know actually earn more than they did in their conventional jobs. Yes, in the short term, you might make less, but is that fear really practical? The real question isn’t, “Will I make less?” It’s this: 👉 If I do earn less at the start, will it stop me from paying for meals, rent, or bills? Or is it simply my mind telling me that giving up a certain lifestyle means I’m failing? ✨ Sometimes, the biggest barrier isn’t financial at all. It’s the story we tell ourselves about what money means. 🎥 Watch the full video now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9StbL-RuKu0 ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: http://bit.ly/maysimyoutubesubs ► Follow on Instagram: @maysim.sg ► TikTok: @selfstrology #MoneyMindset #CareerPurpose #SelfEmploymentJourney #FinancialWellbeing #PsychologicalBarriers #AuthenticLiving #MaySim #Selfstrology #EmotionalWellbeing #LifeChoices #PersonalGrowth
What’s always surprising to me is how many people avoid the question: 👉 “What would you actually like to do with your life?” And here’s the irony, in my experience as an astrologer, most people do know. It’s not that they’re lost. It’s that they laugh it off as unrealistic, unattainable, or “too unconventional.” When I ask, many people joke: “Oh, I just want to live like a tai tai, travel, get my nails done.” And sure, there are a few who genuinely mean that. But most? They want to contribute. They want their work to mean something. They want to build a simple, honest life with people they love and yes, to be paid fairly for what they offer. ✨ The truth is: your desires aren’t frivolous. They’re the compass pointing you to the life you actually want. The real question is whether you’ll take them seriously enough to follow. 🎥 Watch the full video now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/9StbL-RuKu0 ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: http://bit.ly/maysimyoutubesubs ► Follow on Instagram: @maysim.sg ► TikTok: @selfstrology #LifePurpose #AuthenticLiving #UnconventionalDreams #PersonalGrowth #CareerWithMeaning #Selfstrology #MaySim #PsychologicalAstrology #EmotionalWellbeing #LifeChoices
I hear this a lot in my classes and consultations: “Making friends feels too transactional these days.” People tell me "If I go out, it feels like networking" Like every conversation has a hidden agenda. Like someone will only talk to me if I can help their business, or offer them something they want. So what happens? We protect ourselves by avoiding it altogether. We stay home. We keep to ourselves. Because honestly, it feels safer than paying the “cost” of hanging out. The transport, the time, the effort… only to leave feeling used. But here’s the thing I want to challenge: Maybe the reason meetups feel transactional isn’t just about other people. It’s about how hypersensitive we’ve become to the cost of connection. When we can entertain ourselves endlessly solo: movies, games, streaming, scrolling. Meeting someone face-to-face suddenly feels like an expense. And so we begin asking the wrong question: “Do I have something to gain from you?” ✨ But what if the real value isn’t in what we get from people… but in how we allow ourselves to simply be human with each other? 🎥 Watch the full video now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RUdq1snTNic ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: http://bit.ly/maysimyoutubesubs ► Follow on Instagram: @maysim.sg ► TikTok: @selfstrology #FriendshipChanges #LonelinessEpidemic #AuthenticConnections #LifeStages #EmotionalWellbeing #PerspectiveShift #FriendshipJourney #HumanGrowth #DifferentPaths #MaySim #Selfstrology #PsychologicalAstrology
Most of us have what I call institutional friends, the ones who just happen to be in our lives because of circumstance. Schoolmates, colleagues, neighbours. They’re not chosen, they’re simply… there. Like the background of your daily life. And don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing “bad” about them. They’re natural, and often they make life feel familiar. But here’s the part that many of us miss: they’re also passive. What we rarely talk about is the power of an active friend group. The people you meet because you decided to step into something new. Whether that’s joining a golf club, taking up pottery, or signing up for a course that excites you. These aren’t imposed friendships. They’re born from choice. And that’s the beauty of it: When you actively shape your life, you also shape the kind of people who walk into it. People who reflect not just where you’ve been, but where you’re choosing to go. ✨ Maybe the real shift we need isn’t about keeping every friendship alive… but learning to build the ones that truly grow with us. 🎥 Watch the full video now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RUdq1snTNic ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: http://bit.ly/maysimyoutubesubs ► Follow on Instagram: @maysim.sg ► TikTok: @selfstrology #FriendshipChanges #LifeStages #HumanGrowth #DifferentPaths #LettingGoWithLove #PerspectiveShift #FriendshipJourney #EmotionalWellbeing #ResonanceAndConnection #AuthenticConnections #MaySim #Selfstrology #PsychologicalAstrology
Taking the leap to becoming self-employed can be very daunting and scary for some of you - especially if you've only been an employee for your entire career life thus far. Whether you're exploring this path because you feel a lack of purpose in your current role, or perhaps due to circumstances like being made redundant in today’s volatile economic landscape, making the transition is not easy. Financial insecurity, income instability and work sustainability are at the top of mind when making the transition... but, actually, these psychological fears can be addressed and the barriers can be removed for a smooth transition. In this video, I'll do a deep dive to discuss: - what some of these fears are, and what we can do about them - factors to consider, and what are some that easily get missed out - what are some positive upsides to the self-employed/freelance approach - - - - - - - - If you'd like to examine your own birth chart to identify and guide your next career direction: https://selfstrology.com/course/introduction-to-astrology-decode-the-birth-chart/ To find out more about consultation options, visit: https://consultmaysim.com/personal-consultation - - - - - - - - Check out the Earth to Air Era Transition Webinars here: https://youtu.be/DUD6Vj3cbn0?si=BpqYePy2m7rmDklh The Great Reorder: 2025 Global Forecast Event: https://selfstrology.thrivecart.com/the-great-reorder-event-recording/ - - - - - - - - ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: / @maysim ► Generate Your Birth Chart!: https://selfstrology.com/chart-generator ► Learn REAL Astrology with May Sim!: https://selfstrology.com/astrology-courses/
Are we experiencing a 'Silent Epidemic' right now? It's becoming more and more common that people are becoming isolated and having fewer people to talk to. What exactly is causing our social circles to shrink, and why is it so difficult for people to make friends now? In this video, I'll be looking into the factors that lead to loneliness among adults and the psychological causes and effects. But also, how else can we address these concerns? Join us to learn Astrology in a PRACTICAL and APPLICABLE way: https://selfstrology.com/astrology-courses/ - - - - - - - - ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: / @maysim ► Generate Your Birth Chart!: https://selfstrology.com/chart-generator ► Learn REAL Astrology with May Sim!: https://selfstrology.com/astrology-courses/
When we’re young, friendships seem effortless. You see each other every day in school. You share the same routines, the same challenges, the same jokes that make no sense to anyone else. But in adulthood, the ground shifts. We’re no longer just hanging out for fun — we’re reflecting each other’s values, beliefs, and the stage of life we’re in. And when one person moves to a new stage… that reflection changes. This is why fading friendships feel so unsettling. It’s not just losing touch. It’s becoming hyper-aware that we no longer care about the same things. You see it when old classmates are deep into industries you barely understand, or when your priorities no longer align. That difference can feel like distance. And that distance can feel like rejection — even when it isn’t. 🎥 Watch the full video now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/k03kiePcEcE ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: http://bit.ly/maysimyoutubesubs ► Follow on Instagram: @maysim.sg ► TikTok: @selfstrology ChangingSocialCircles #DifferentLifeStages #FriendshipTransitions #PerspectiveShift #LifeAfterSchool #AuthenticConnections #FriendshipJourney #LettingGoWithLove #AdultFriendships #MaySim #Selfstrology #PsychologicalAstrology #AstrologySingapore
Losing friends feels terrifying. We tell ourselves it’s an emotional rejection — they don’t like me anymore. But often… it’s not that at all. When we spend time with friends, we’re not just sharing laughs and stories. We’re seeing our own beliefs and values reflected back at us. And if one of us moves into a different stage of life: changes careers, starts a family, redefines what matters that reflection shifts. It’s not you or them. It’s the resonance that’s changed. What’s really unsettling isn’t the “goodbye.” It’s how quickly a human being can grow in ways you didn’t expect in such a short span of time. And when that happens, the “rejection” you feel isn’t about love or friendship at all. It’s simply a recognition: we see the world differently now. 🎥 Watch the full video now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/k03kiePcEcE ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: http://bit.ly/maysimyoutubesubs ► Follow on Instagram: @maysim.sg ► TikTok: @selfstrology #FriendshipChanges #LifeStages #HumanGrowth #DifferentPaths #LettingGoWithLove #PerspectiveShift #FriendshipJourney #EmotionalWellbeing #ResonanceAndConnection #AuthenticConnections #MaySim #Selfstrology #PsychologicalAstrology
One of the lesser-known themes in astrology? Your future plans aren’t just about career or love… they’re also about your people. Think about it: Most of the friends you've ever had — they came from a structure. - School friends. - Military buddies. - Colleagues at work. They were part of a chapter. And when the chapter closed… many of those friendships quietly ended too. ✨ What if I told you that your friendships actually mirror your personal evolution? That every time you step into a new life stage, a new version of you, a new social circle tends to emerge too? This is why future planning can feel confusing. Because it's not just about what you’ll do. It’s also about who you’ll become — and who will be there with you. 🎥 Watch the full video now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/k03kiePcEcE ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: http://bit.ly/maysimyoutubesubs ► Follow on Instagram: @maysim.sg ► TikTok: @selfstrology #MaySim #Selfstrology #FuturePlanningWithDepth #PsychologicalAstrology #FriendsAndGrowth #AstrologySingapore #EvolutionThroughConnection #NewChaptersNewPeople #AstrologyWithInsight #PersonalGrowthJourney #FriendshipsAsReflections #AstrologyAndLifePhases #AstrologySingapore
We talk endlessly about money, careers, even romantic love… But no one really prepares you for what happens when your friendships quietly disappear. In this segment, I open up about something we often overlook: Friendships don’t usually end with a bang, they just fade. And one day, you look up and realise you’re alone… and you don’t even know how it happened. 📉 In a time where the loneliness epidemic is growing, we need to talk about what it means to maintain friendships as adults. Why it gets harder. Why we cling to friendships that may have outlived their time. Why we try to force what no longer fits — just to avoid the ache of letting go. ✨ And most importantly, how to start being honest about what we really need from our closest people. 🎥 Watch the full video now on YouTube: https://youtu.be/k03kiePcEcE ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: http://bit.ly/maysimyoutubesubs ► Follow on Instagram: @maysim.sg ► TikTok: @selfstrology #MaySim #Selfstrology #FriendshipMatters #LonelinessEpidemic #AdultFriendships #EmotionalWellbeing #PsychologicalAstrology #AstrologyWithDepth #RelationshipsAndGrowth #AstrologySingapore #HealingConversations
The 11th House describes a group of people who are our Friends, Social Groups and Communities. And as with most interpersonal relationships, there's bound to be differences and disagreements. Navigating these friendships may not be as simple, and they often present psychological challenges as well. In this video, we'll be looking into: - What role does friendship actually play in our lives - What are some themes of the 11th house that might seem confusing - What are some common causes for people to drift apart - What are some factors that bind friendships and people together Join us to learn Astrology in a PRACTICAL and APPLICABLE way: https://selfstrology.com/astrology-courses/ - - - - - - - - ► Subscribe to MAY SIM: / @maysim ► Generate Your Birth Chart!: https://selfstrology.com/chart-generator ► Learn REAL Astrology with May Sim!: https://selfstrology.com/astrology-courses/
The Great Reorder Playbook have arrived! Printed copies have arrived just in time for my event this Saturday. The Playbook contains several detailed explanations of the Earth-to-Air concepts and also guides on how you can plan your personal transition! VIP attendees be sure to collect this at the door and for the other attendees, the physical copies of the Playbook is available for purchase at the event too! Really excited and hope to see you soon at the event on Saturday!
It is quite clear that ‘Artificial Intelligence’ is set to replace many jobs and the question you should be asking yourself is - when is this going to hit? The extent of the impact on employment and retrenchments due to AI might be far beyond what most people would expect. With the world changing so rapidly, it's becoming harder to keep up with the pace. Many of these developments are so complex that even leading economists and politicians can’t fully explain them. The old rules don’t seem to work anymore. We are already in this new Era - the ‘Air Era’. The things we were told would guarantee success – getting a degree, climbing the corporate ladder, buying property – aren’t delivering the same stability they once promised. You also know that staying status quo and doing the same Earth-Era activities aren’t going to work. But, the biggest difficulty is that you don’t know what the alternative solutions are, apart from doing the things you have been doing. To thrive in this new world, you’ll need clarity — on how to transition, what to change, and what to let go of. However, there is an astrological explanation for these massive changes we are experiencing. Join me at the event, as I go through and explain in detail: - What the Earth-to-Air transition really means - How this transition is directly affecting the world (as you see now daily in the news) and beyond - The emerging patterns and mindsets of the Air Era - Practical strategies to help you adapt and thrive in these times - - - - - Event Details: The Great Reorder 21 June 2025 2pm-6pm RELC Auditorium Get Your Tickets Now: https://events.selfstrology.com/the-great-reorder-2025-forecast-event/
If you’ve been curious about astrology and how much it can reveal about a person… You may be surprised to know it can do the same for entire countries — and even global humanity. Just like we use astrology to forecast a person’s life path, we can apply the same principles to global and regional events — economic shifts, societal changes, and more. You will need to make crucial decisions in this period about careers, personal life, where you want to go from here… You can study your own chart, but that won’t be enough. Your decisions have to make sense in a changing world, which means you also have to know what seismic changes are to come in the medium term. - - - BE INFORMED OF WHAT TO EXPECT IN THE NEXT 2-3 YEARS - - - To make empowered, strategic decisions and plan for the months and years ahead, you need to understand: - What economic, religious, and political shifts are coming — and how they affect your region? - Which global trends may indirectly influence your life and work? - What traits, skills, and mindsets will be valued in the new landscape? - What are the resources that you will be able to tap into, in order to adapt, survive and thrive? The truth is, these insights are hard to come by. They're not found in one neat report — and some events or situations haven't even surfaced yet. And that’s why I’ll be putting all of these together and sharing these crucial insights for you to pivot! Join me in my upcoming forecast event on 21 Jun 2025 - The Great Reorder Event Details: 21 June 2025 (Sat) 2pm-6pm RELC Auditorium Get Your Tickets Now: https://events.selfstrology.com/the-great-reorder-2025-forecast-event
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